Overcoming the Impostor Complex When It Matters Most
Overcoming the Impostor Complex When It Matters Most
YOUR SPOTLIGHT AWAITS
You have done the work and that work - and you - deserve a bigger stage.
I’m not talking about faux-celebrity or fame for the sake of fame or elevating yourself because ego demands it or suddenly doubling down on entitlement and demanding all red M&Ms in your dressing room.
Nope. I’m talking about your due. Return on investment. Playing big because you’ve logged the 10,000 hours and you know your work inside out and it will make a difference.
Because you are not the understudy in your own life. You have dreams, you’ve done the work and this is your role.
The Impostor Complex is the beast between you and your dreams -
- the dreams you’ve rightfully earned with your excellent work.
And when you’ve earned it but something is preventing you from claiming it…
...well that’s not okay. The Impostor Complex needs an intervention.
(You don’t need an intervention. The Impostor does. It has to go.)
A parallel, if you will:
If, for example, you made every mortgage payment but were refused the deed and the right to move into the house you invested in and paid for…
...you’d raise a ruckus, yes?
Because when it comes to your work in the world, the Impostor Complex is preventing you from moving into the house you built and paid for and deserve.
And it doesn’t have to be like that.
It’s not going to be like that.
The Impostor Complex is not going to win.
No one else is going to claim your role.
Let’s say no to Impostor Complex and yes to the future you’ve already created. But this time, with UNSHAKEABLE CONFIDENCE.
Does this sound at all familiar?
You know you are in your own way.
It’s frustrating as hell, but you can see that while you’re doing pretty amazing things, they pale in comparison to what you COULD be doing. If only...
You have a hard time taking credit for your success.
Everyone around you seems to think you’re doing well...but you suspect they’re just being nice. The things you’re doing aren’t THAT significant.
You know that you can play bigger than you are, but you simply aren’t taking the action.
It’s clear that there are some fears in the way, but you may not know what they are, where they come from, and most importantly, what to DO about them.
You think that it’s just a matter of time before this all comes crumbling down.
It feels like any success you have is built on a house of cards. One swift breeze, and everything collapses.
You pass up opportunities you say you want because you don’t feel ready…yet.
And we know how well THAT is working out for you. And we know what a hungry ghost “ready” can be.
You want to write THE book but who’s going to publish someone as small as me? Besides...hasn’t it all already been said before?
You unconsciously avoid your excellence by engaging in one of the confidence killing behaviours: comparison, perfectionism, people-pleasing, diminishment, comparison or leaky boundaries.
Your Impostor Complex is denying you - wrongfully - the fruits of your own labour.
Of your life’s work.
The Impostor Complex is whispering lies in your ear.
But the truth is louder than the Impostor Complex.
Here’s the truth:
You know your work better than anyone.
You have the skills, the talents, and the capacity.
You have all the tools you need to be a raging success.
You have the stuff of which legends are made.
You did the work, you deserve it and you are going to claim it.
It’s UNSHAKEABLE CONFIDENCE that’s missing.
So here’s what we’re gonna to about it.
We’re going to have you root into the foundational tenets of Unshakeable Confidence:
We will vanquish your Impostor Complex.
And you WILL step into your starring role
(and that’s got nothing to do with pseudo-fame and everything to do with your impact)
That’s what we’ve packaged up for you in Unshakeable Confidence Program.
AND RIGHT NOW? We’re offering a ONE DAY UNSHAKEABLE CONFIDENCE IMMERSION.
Master your integrity
You will hold operate from authenticity
You will honour your word
You will be obedient to your vision.
And when you become masterful in your integrity, you will no longer allow your boundaries to be leaky, and you will no longer be held captive by people-pleasing.
Root into your presence
You will feel your power
You will know yourself
You will find a reverence for the incredible human you are.
And when you root into your presence, you will no longer feel the compulsion to compare and diminish.
Get into action
You will reconnect with you tenacity
You will find the lightness in a willingness to fail
You will rediscover your resilience
And when you get into action, procrastination and perfectionism start to become a thing in your past.
STEP 1: DECIDE TO STRIVE
We begin be assessing where you are, and where you say you want to go.
We decide. Then we do.
Step #2: Meet the Critics
We get into and under the beliefs that have been running the show. Then we take back our rightful position in the Director’s Chair of our life.
Step #3: Build our Authority Thesis
Collect the evidence and deepen into the proof - and it is there, trust me - that THIS is your time.
Step #4: Assemble the Cast
You don’t have to go it alone. In fact, it’s essential that you don’t. The Impostor Complex wants to isolate you so go ahead and foil its plans by gathering the people who will support & nurture you - both in the spotlight and behind the scenes.
Step #5: Do the Work
You’ve laid the foundations, you’ve trained for the race so let’s make it happen. Now.
Step #6: Celebrate
Allow yourself to bask in the glow. You've earned it and here’s the big secret successful people know about celebration: it sustains you in your journey. It’s not a cherry on top. It’s essential to fuel your rise.
Each Step Includes
A stage-setting video
Each step includes a short video to help you understand where we’re going, and how it connects and relates to Unshakeable Confidence. They are designed to help you deepen into the work to come.
A guiding workbook
Every step of the way, you’ll receive a fillable .pdf that includes worksheets filled with prompts, inquiries, exercises and invitations to immerse yourself in the discovery required for you to step into your starring role with unshakeable confidence.
To celebrate the launch of this program, we are inviting 20 people to join me LIVE for a one-day Unshakeable Confidence Immersion.
This will be a massive kickstart to getting the gorgeous work of Unshakeable Confidence off the ground.
We’ll take the most essential parts of each step and dive into them together in real time.
Twenty Mega Lights, just like you, working with me in a glorious day of activation and community.
I have worked with hundreds of women on owning their goals, finding clarity in their purpose, and getting the results that change their lives. I'm a masterful CTI-certified life coach, a wife, a mom, and TEDx Women speaker (on, what else? The Impostor Complex). I’ve been called The “Star Tipper” by Danielle LaPorte and the Empress of Empowerment by more clients than I can count. I’m pretty proud of both of those monikers.
And I have also listened to the ugly voice of the Impostor Complex one too many times.
This program is the result of years of curiosity about my own personal struggle, my own seeming lack of ability to let the light shine on my greatest gifts. It's also the fourth time I've run this. To wild and thunderous applause.
It's the culmination of research, coaching experience, and alas, life experience.