To avoid feeling like a fraud, the Impostor Complex has us hide out in certain behaviours: procrastination, perfectionism, comparison, leaky boundaries, diminishment, or in your case: PEOPLE-PLEASING.
People-pleasing is allll about trying to smooth the way forward by making sure people like you and that you fit in and relate well with others. Not a bad thing per se, but I’m certain you can see how it’s stopped you from carrying out your big and brave work in the world.
Because in the quest to be liked, you tend to forget that you have earned your seat at the table.
I have so much more to share with you, so if you’d like to learn more, pop your email in here. I’ll share:
- Why you do this (psst… it’s not all bad!);
- How it relates to the Impostor Complex and has been in the way of your Unshakeable Confidence; and,
- Above all, what you can do to move past this so you can shine even brighter. Because we neeeeeed you at full strength.