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Failure (or - Nobody gets through this journey without a stubbed toe)
So you’ve been thinking about hiring me as your coach, have you?
Confession time: I failed the all-important oral portion of my coaching certification exam.
No, no - WAIT. Come back!
I mean I failed it the FIRST time. Nailed it the second.
Yes, I am a fully certified professional coach. And have been for well over a year.
Are we better now?
Not really?
I guess I had THAT coming. Should have kept my mouth shut.
Here’s the story. It’s short and painful. Or at least, it was.
I worked hard during the 6-month certification process. Studied intently, got excellent grades on MOST of my supervisions. Breezed through the written part of the exam.
Then I got super cocky.
So cocky, in fact, that I chose to book the oral portion (live coaching of certification supervisors) on my birthday. I mean, what’s one more awesome thing to celebrate, right?
There was not a doubt in my mind that I was gonna win. Was loud and proud on my Facebook page. Bottle of champagne at the ready.
Like this picture of me when I was 9.
Love that kid and her “I’m gonna win” strut, right?
But sometimes we don’t win.
In fact, sometimes we fail.
Well, you know the drill. First I was in denial. Then I got mad. Then petulant. Then self-indulgent. Then probably mad again. Then I needed validation that there were OTHER amazing coaches who had failed (there were many).
Eventually, I landed on this: I’ll take the exam again. I’ll learn from this experience. I won’t like it, but I’ll do it.
So I did.
Here’s what I learned:
1. Confident is good. Cockiness, less so. Confidence is knowing what you are capable of. Cockiness is not leaving any room for error.
2. To win the game, you have to play the game. I re-listened to the audio of the exam. Just once. (It was all I could bear.) The coaching I did in that oral exam was excellent. I’d certainly hire me. But I didn’t use the SPECIFIC coaching tools I was being tested on. Kind of like being in a culinary examination on your ability to create puff pastry and trying to wow the examiners with your meringue prowess. Possibly delicious, but highly irrelevant. Had I been the supervisor looking for those tools, I’d also have failed me.
3. You have to know the rules to break the rules. I’m fiercely proud of the year-and-a-half that I spent training to become a coach. I don the hat that my client requires me to wear in that moment. Without exception.
4. Fail fast, recover faster. Lick your wounds and get back on the horse before you’ve made up your mind that you will never ride again. Because you know not-so-very-deep down that to never ride again is just punitive bullshit.
5. Lean into your friends. (Imma lookin’ at you, Lisa). They’ll remind you of this all-important truth, even when you choose not to see it:
6. Failing ≠ you are a failure.
7. If you’re a blogger, do not write about your process while you’re processing. You need time, space, and perspective to parse out what’s valuable for yourself and your readers. It’s one thing to be authentically vulnerable and quite another to do an emotional striptease.
8. You can still be a super star AND have failed. Like Beethoven. Gates. Lucas. Lincoln. Edison. Churchill. Spielberg. Ford. Honda. Disney. Winfrey. Socrates. Seinfeld. Godin. Ask your idol – she’ll tell you about the time she failed. It's like a friend once said: Nobody gets through this journey without a stubbed toe or two.
I’d much rather learn from success than from failure, but I’d be a fool not to take the learnings where I can.
And, honey? I may have failed, but I ain’t no fool, I ain’t no failure, and surely to heaven above, I will fail again.
But I’m also gonna win. Lots.
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An Idea Party Gone Intentional: Finding Your Thing with Board of Your Life
Or: 360 Degrees of You, Baby, You
In the last month of Thing Finding Thursdays, Chris Guillebeau, Dyana Valentine, Jenny Blake, and Kelly Diels each talked about asking yourself The Big Questions:
What do you really want to do?
What would you do if you weren't getting paid?
What are you really, really good at...and can you REALLY make a living at it?
To find - or admit - their things, they started by getting real, getting honest, and looking inside. They made the interior journey - and of course, no one can do that for you except you.
But that's only part of the process. When you're looking for clues and puzzle pieces to piece together your Thing, you need to look around, not just inside. Look to your people: your friends, family, co-workers, employers. People who've known you a long time, seen you in good and bad times, watched you at work and at play, witnessed you enchanted and thoroughly disenchanted.
It's kind of like the back of your ensemble. You might not see it unless you seek it out. But everyone around you sees you from all angles.
So ask them what they see.
But this is not about asking if your ass looks fat in those pants. This is about people who care for you, are invested in you, see you...
...helping you see your way forward. Maybe even helping you find Your Thing - and then brainstorming tangible, achievable steps to making Your Thing happen.
From an Idea Party...
In this month's O Magazine, Barbara Sher talks about the 'idea party'. You get together with your friends and each of you outline an intention, goal or dream, and then brainstorm ways to make it happen. You ask for help. For connections. For creativity. And someone knows someone with a vacation villa in Italy and a guru in India and an incandescent Javier Bardem look-alike in Bali and suddenly you're living - and writing - the next Eat Pray Love. Or maybe that's just in a Julia Roberts movie.
Or maybe it's your life.
The brilliantly simple point of an idea party is in the brainstorm, in the expanding of your possibilities from a party of one (you) to a team teeming with suggestions and directions.
Now that's a party. Let's have that party.
...To Assembling a Board of Your Life
But let's make that idea party even more purposive, more intentional, more accountable and more results-oriented. Let's not just assemble a team, let's assemble a Board.
Of Advisors.
For your Life.
That's what I've been doing for years: facilitating my baby, my brainchild, my Thing. And My Thing is called Board of Your Life. (It led me to coaching and I am eternally grateful. That's the point...Board of Your Life leads to magic).
Board of Your Life is a Summit. It's 360 degrees of invitation and clarity. It's an expedition and an adventure...and a wildly practical and possible process. And I've decided that I can no longer be the only one facilitating this gorgeousness. So I've created The Board of Your Life Kit, which includes:
a matrix to help you select and invite your advisors;
a list of tested, provocative, intensely productive questions;
a guide for your faciliator to effectively focus and lead the event; and
lists of all the materials needed to make the magic happen.
[It even includes templates for making the ask of your advisors. Confidence bolstering note: many Board of Your Life-ees are initially hesitant to ask potential advisors to participate...and then find, incredibly (and predictably!) that instead of being weirded out by the request, advisors feel profoundly honoured. When we do (or try to do) everything ourselves, we deny the people we care about the basic human dignity of supporting us. And so inviting your people into your decision making process is 360 degrees of generosity: you're sharing your purpose and your future with them; and they're sharing their knowledge of you with you.]
And so with Board of Your Life you'll see all your possibilities from all angles. You'll augment the knowledge you've excavated from your soul (by asking yourself those Big Questions) with information, plans and possibilities from the people who know you best, see you clearly, and can help you see your way into your thing.
Are you in? Intrigued? The Board of Your Life Kit debuts in ABOUT 14 days. If you'd like to know more about this kit and how to use it, let me know in the comments or sign-up below. I'll tell you all about my thing...so you can get started finding your thing.
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Thing Finding Thursday with Chris Guillebeau
You know Chris Guillebeau, right? He's the founder of The Art of Non-Conformity and he's taking over the world...literally. His mission is "world domination" - but in the good way. In the "do what you love, make it happen, make life count, be good to others" way. He's devoted to building an empire of world-changers, and, along the way, travelling the world. Really travelling it. Like, he plans to visit every country on the map before he's 35.
And oh yes, he just had his first book - aptly called "The Art of Non-Conformity" - published.
That's a lot of living. That's serious living and there's no map for it. Chris Guillebeau has actually invented his thing...
...so how'd he know how to do that - and then have the confidence to do it?
I wanted to know and I thought you'd want to know too, so I asked him.
What's your thing?
Chris Guillebeau: Well, I don't have just one thing -- it's a chaotic blend of a few different passions. I love travel and have been on a quest to visit every country in the world for the past four years. I'm a writer and try to publish at least 1,000 words a day in one form or another. I'm an entrepreneur and have never had a job. I go on tour and meet with my readers all over the world, in at least twenty countries a year.
But when you put these things together, I came up with a theme of non-conformity, or helping people to think differently and live unconventional lives. This is my main project that I work on continually.
Was finding your thing the result of a divine revelation, an insane invention, a culmination of insights...or something else?
Chris Guillebeau: Probably "something else." I love divine revelation stories, but for most of us I think it's more of a series of steps. I always wanted to be a writer, but I didn't get serious about it until after I had lived overseas for a while and was turning thirty. I also began traveling quite a bit more then, and the two went together.
Another thing that's important to mention is that my work wasn't very good in the beginning. This isn't false modesty; it's the reality for almost everyone who pursues a career or even just a passion in some kind of creative work. That's why it's so important to keep going and continuously improve yourself. Perhaps the "insane invention" comes about after the 10,000 hours of refining oneself.
Obstacles/fears/doubts – what were they, how'd you vanquish them?
Chris Guillebeau: I still have many of them. I think the goal isn't so much to vanquish fear, because in some ways fear will always be with you. The goal is to find a way to channel those fears into something positive and motivating. I think a lot about regrets, and when you frame things in terms of looking back later, it becomes easier. Most of us regret the things we haven't done much more than the things we've done.
So I try to make myself jump even when I'm afraid or doubtful, in other words.
What questions did you ask yourself to trigger your a-ha moments...and what signs and milestones should others be looking for in their journeys?
Chris Guillebeau: What do I really want?
How can I make that happen?
What do I need to give up or sacrifice to receive what I really want?
How will my life impact others?
How can I encourage, inspire, or otherwise help others?
Who would I like to be? (What roles would I like to have?)
Is that all? (Usually there's more... I always push people to go further.)
Regarding signs and milestones, yes, I think it's important to have markers along the way where you can identify progress. For example, some might say "I'd like to publish a book one day." This is a great goal, but there are many signs and milestones en route to its culmination. A few would include finding an agent, writing a proposal, pitching to publishers, receiving an offer, completing draft #1, moving to the editing phase, and so on. The more specific you can make your goals, the better -- otherwise we tend to get overwhelmed or give up.
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You know what I hear in all that wisdom Chris Guillebeau is throwing down? I hear that it's all incremental. I hear that you get better and better at what you do and clearer and clearer about who you are as you do it.
And that asking yourself what you really want to do - and answering it with action - is essential.
So let's start there: what do YOU really want to do?
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You can find Chris Guillebeau at his blog, The Art of Non-Conformity; on Twitter; or Facebook.
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Thing Finding Thursday with Kelly Diels
Today's Thing Finding Thursday features a guest post by Kelly Diels.
Kelly Diels is writer/teacher/sex goddess/mama/Red Shoe Blogger who wants to talk about what happens when you already KNOW what your thing is...but are wildly intimidated. She's got a theory that lots of us actually know what we're here to do but shy away from it because it's not practical.
And the answer is not (entirely) Fie To Practicality! so much as "make it practical". Find ways to do your thing and tap-dance your way into meaning even if the orchestra (or economy!) isn't yet playing your song. The meaning isn't in the job title. It's in the doing.
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On (Almost) Losing My Suitcase and Finding My Purpose: A Metaphor
Prince George. As I step off the plane into the summer sunshine, I'm lit and light with anticipation. After two months apart, I'm about to spend a week with my loverloverman.
My week of wonder, however, is still a few hours away: I've got to get a shuttle to the bus station and then a bus to Smithers. But time with my man is closer than ever and that's all that's on my mind. It's everything that's on my mind. There's no need for dilly-dallying and dawdling in the airport, picking over magazines or picking up snacks and sustenance. No, I'm carrying everything I need in my laptop case, my purse, my hands, my heart. And so I head from the plane right through the airport, straight for the shuttle and step inside. I'm buoyant. Light. Travelling light.
I'm the first one in. What is taking everyone else so long?
They start trickling into the shuttle, sloooooooowly and inelegantly loading their bags and suitcases into the back, taking forever...Effing baggage. Let's go!
Oh wait. I'll be right back. That's what I exclaim to the shuttle driver as I leap out of my seat, out of the shuttle, and back into the airport.
For that one lonely suitcase rounding the carousel. My suitcase, the one I'd left behind in my enthusiasm to get where I was going...without my things.
Who leaves an airport without her luggage?
I almost did. And I'm not the only one. Airports and airlines have claim desks full of stray suitcases. People forget their things. If they thought about them, they'd know where they were, what they contained. Their things aren't lost, exactly. They just need to be claimed.
It was the same with My Thing. I'm a writer. I always knew I was a writer. From the age of eight I knew I could and would and should write essays, articles, books.
But I resisted being a writer because I read too much. I read Little Women: Jo scribbles in the attic and later lives in a single room in a rooming house. I read Portrait of an Artist as a Young Man and was not seduced by the existential anguish of an undiscovered genius. And then I read Down and Out in London and Paris wherein George Orwell decides he's a writer, lives in a bug-infested rented room and - when he's not working hellish hours in a hellish kitchen - sells his clothes to buy bread to survive another day.
True story. And not one I care to emulate. Attics and garrets, they grow tiresome. Poverty is not my thing...and so neither was writing for a living.
And so I always knew writing was My Thing but I chose to leave it behind. I walked out of the airport and into my life without my suitcase. Without My Thing.
And that was fine(ish). I went to university, I got great jobs, I did well, I made money, I worked in the city and lived in the suburbs, I lived well. Everything was ok.
From the outside. I got up, got my girls to daycare, went to work, did it well, picked up my girls, made dinner, put them to bed, watched TV...and wondered:
Is this it? Is this what I'm living for? To collect a paycheque to pay for daycare and cable?
And that wasn't it. That wasn't my thing and I knew it and I'd always known it. Because My Thing just wasn't practical. How would I make it a career? How would I make money?
And those are the wrong questions to start with.
When you're finding your thing, start with this:
What would I do for free? What do I do even though no one pays me?
The money and career questions (and answers and plans and plots and schemes) come later. Because Your Thing doesn't have to be a full-time job, a career or even make you money. Mother Theresa had a thing. I doubt it paid very well.
(My children pay even less and I'm in that gig for life.)
So put aside the practical questions and be truly, madly, deeply impractical: what do you need to do? What would you do for free?
And then do that. You don't have to quit your job. Just start doing your thing. You and your thing will find your way together.
If you claim it from the carousel (should I? Shouldn't I? Can I? Will I? And 'round and 'round...) and carry it with you on your journey.
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You can find Kelly Diels at her blog, Cleavage (about sex, money and meaning and writing through the lines that shape us); on Twitter (@kellydiels); or Facebook (Cleavage by Kelly Diels).
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Significance in insignificance
Yesterday was a glorious autumn day here in Toronto. Unseasonably warm, yet with a shimmer of coolness. Brilliant foliage against the backdrop of a dazzling blue sky. I left my husband and daughter down at the beach to collect rocks while I went off on a run. I inserted my earbuds, selected my run mix then hunkered down intent on making good time.
I started to notice the leaves dance around my feet, and realized that I was missing their satisfying crunching sound, so I turned off the iPod. I became entranced by the leaves' dance...there was purpose and abandon. Then I started to notice the butterflies shyly darting before me, twirling to their own rhythm. I noticed the volleyball players to my left had their own beat: volley, set, spike while the waves kept their own time as did my own feet. Dogs, children, birds...all with something to sing.
Music, everywhere. Disjointed and messy and exquisitely gorgeous. Everyone a musician, revelling in their beat. Each piece, equally significant in its insignificance.
It reminded me that we are perpetually in process. A hot, chaotic, cacophony that resolves into beauty...you just need to step back to fully appreciate it.
This performance by Bon Iver on Jimmy Fallon articulates this far better than any words I have. (Be patient with the 30 second advertisement...this is worth the wait). Especially around 3:41. Promise.
Our lives feel like these epochs, but really we are dust in the wind. But I think there’s a significance in that insignificance.
- Justin Vernon (Bon Iver)
Yes.
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Thing Finding Thursday With Dyana Valentine
What's Your Thing?
You now know that this is one of my favourite questions. To ask and to help others answer.
I found my thing - and kapow! finding my thing was a game-changer, a life-changer - and over and over again, that's what clients come to me for: help figuring out what they want to do with this one wild and precious life.
And you and I aren't the only ones committed to you finding your thing.
Oh no. Not by a long shot.
Dyana Valentine is another one.
And mercy me, this woman is not for the faint of heart. She’s spent the past 12 years instigating entrepreneurs and teams to complete seemingly impossible projects—we’re talking major brand overhauls, six-figure product launches, full-fledged manuscripts. She serves up straight-from-the-hip advice in online magazines and columns all over the ‘net…in a past life, she was an idiot-savant microsurgery tech, worked for the Olympic Games organizing committee, and was personally approached by the FBI with a recruitment invitation—for classified reasons – on two separate occasions. She's a writer, speaker, instigator, and creator of the incredible Woke Up Knowing Experience.
So, clearly:
Dyana KNOWS about things. And finding things.
And sharing. She loves to share. And so for this week's Thing Finding Thursday, Dyana and I talked about your catalogue of things, tying shoes, and being your own investigative reporter.
Go on and love her.
You heard, that, right?
"You have a CATALOGUE of things."
"Just because your GOOD at something DOESN'T MEAN YOU HAVE ANY BUSINESS DOING IT."
AND finally: "believe yourself."
You feel the shudder of resonance, right?
Me too.
Find more Dyana goodness: www.dyanavalentine.com + @DyanaValentine
Know this: We are gaining on finding your thing. Oh yes we are.
More fabulous people + resources coming your way every Thing Finding Thursday. So keep showing up.
PS - that amazing friend Skylar? Also an amazing artist: Check him out: Skylar Fein.
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Transcript for your reading pleasure
Tanya Geisler: And I know that you and I share the belief that everybody got a thing.
Dyana Valentine: Or that everybody has a catalogue of things, which is what I’m starting to discover. So, I’m even in a transition right now where my thing is morphing. I am, as I’m sure you can tell, I’m fairly animated, right?
Tanya: Mm-hmm. Little bit.
Dyana: One of the things that happens is, the more us we are, the more we tap in to things that are really meaningful to us and might not have seemed important but that sort of keep coming back. So, I’ll give you a little story.
When I was about 5 years old, or maybe I was 4 I can’t remember when you learn to tie your shoes, but it’s sometime before major school starts kind of age, I learned how to tie my shoes. And the feeling to be somebody who’s sort of waist high to everyone, and everybody is always having to like help you in and out of things, and on and off of things, and you know there is all this power stuff that happens around when you are 4 or 5? And learning how to tie my shoes, was a time where I literally felt like I was a foot taller.
I just was so proud of myself. And I was so amazed that I didn’t know how to do it before that time. You know when learn something and you say “Ah! How could I have not known how to do this before?” So I made it my personal mission to teach as many little kids how to tie their shoes as I could.
Okay, here’s what that looked like: Grocery store with mom, my mom at that time was 25, she’s a young woman, she’s working her butt off, right? So, we are at the grocery store and I am walking up and down the aisle looking for kids.
I’d sidle up to them and say “Hi, I’m Dyana. Do you know how to tie your shoes?” And the little kids go like this. And I’d say “Sit down. I’m going to show you right now.”
So the entire calendar year, I was an insane person about teaching other kids how to tie their shoes.
Now, this is a kid’s story, right? I didn’t even recall this story until some years ago, I think my mom reminded me of it and I thought “That’s my thing!” I learn something, and I couldn’t believe how it changed my life therefore I must share it with the world, period. There is not an option. If I found something that took me out of that place where I would do anything I could do to stay under the covers for a period of time. Where I was, I had just finished my Masters degree, my business was growing and it was kind of growing faster than I was ready for it to grow, and I was like “I can’t take the pressure!” You know?
So, in that time here is this story and I thought “Okay, I’m going to teach people how to tie their shoes.” In business, and in life and
So I say we just all look for that story or look for that thing. Or, even ask our parents, or our friends, or our kids to tell use stories about ourselves and what they see in us in our most natural states and see if there is something there that resonates.
Just play with it.
Tanya: what about strengths? How do people know what their strengths are?
Dyana: Well, there are a lot of ways into that. I mean, I think that just because you are good at something doesn’t mean you have any business doing it. So that’s something I feel very strongly about because I spent years doing things that I was perfectly good at and in fact other people thought I was brilliant at, and they made me want to stick a pen into my eye. But, I kept doing them because I was like “Oh, I have a job. So I have a job, so that’s good.”, and whatever. You know, all the sort of requirements, and I was really bummed out.
It sort of took a friend of mine calling me out on that. So my friend Skylar, we had been friends for years and he was just hilarious and fun and just bare and one of those core, core friends who really knows you. After I finished a job, a big involved 70 hour a week intense job for 4 years, the project finished so I ended that job and I was having a phone conversation with him after as I was sort of debriefing that experience and he said “I need to tell you something.” And I said “Okay, go ahead.” And he said “If you ever take a job like that again, that has nothing to do with who you are, I’m not going to be available to you, as a friend.”
So the reason I bring this up in the context of strengths is that I hear Skylar’s voice every time I’m on the precipice of doing something I’m good at, but isn’t necessarily rooted in my strengths and isn’t necessarily based on my values. So that is why I put it in context, because a lot of times people think that your strength, is what you are good at.
You may be absolutely fantastic at cooking for people, and you may not want to do that day in and day out, right? Especially if you’ve already done that for your 2, or 3, or 4 kids and your spouses and your family and stuff like that. You may not want to be professional chef even though you do that and be good at it.
Tanya: Mmm.
Dyana: So, my way into a strength conversation is to look at those things that without them, you would have a different name, basically. Like my name would be Matilda, if my strength was getting like little particular things done and making Excel spreadsheets. I would literally be a different person.
Tanya: Yep.
Dyana: That is not where my strengths are, by the way (laughter). But, my name is Dyana Valentine, and I am absolutely rooted in my power and my strength when I am on stage live and I am interacting with a giant audience.
Okay, so that’s the litmus test. For me, I like to like to process with other people. If you want to practice, this is for you and for all the people watching, if you want to practice seeking out your strengths like a little investigative reporter? You can start to talk about the things you are good at. Talk about the things you really like. Talk about what you value, and have somebody else listen to you, and listen for when that zing happens. To listen for when they go “Oh, oh wait! What did you say? Say that one again.” Just play with about yourself. We are not used to talking about ourselves.
Tanya: But do we need to hit a wall?
Dyana: A trauma, yeah. I think that … I don’t think so. I think that that is a very commonly held concept, that you have to hit bottom before you can bounce back up or something. I’m kind of a drama queen, so I love theories like that because then I’m like “Oh, right… so I have to be more depressed.” So I’ll be like “Okay, I should probably have an extra bottle of wine on hand then”, for that. You know for that transition or whatever. But really I don’t think so, because even in this past year I’m been making a transition to do more speaking and more sort of performing of stories and using that as a catalyst for people to change, and I haven’t had a major trauma.
Tanya: Yeah.
Dyana: But I did have a sense that something needed to come out, and I just kept trying to pay attention to it and listen and to quiet down and listen a lot. So sometimes it can be a major trauma, or a major belly flop of a failure or something, but I don’t think –I don’t know, I’m not really into that whole punishment model, that you have to pay your dues, and all that stuff. I just don’t – I think that can be kind of destructive. So I’m going to go with no.
Tanya: Yeah, I think you should go with no. I like that.
Tanya Geisler: what do you want, this is so big, but what do you want for the people that are watching right now? What do you want for them?
Dyana: Here is what I want for you, all of you watching this: I want for you to believe yourself. And I don’t mean believe in yourself, but I want to believe yourself. I want you to believe what you experience. I want you to believe what you say to yourself, and to other people. I want you to believe that you are on the planet and we are happy that you are here. I want you to believe that if you know something is not good for you that you can make that change. You don’t have to make it now, but I want you to believe that you know the difference between right and right now.
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Hot, hot stuff.
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